We start off with fire, my loves. Fire is all about transformation, burning away the old to bring anew growth which will be healthier and stronger. Our passions, burning determination, and our anger will bring about rapid changes and new movement. The element of fire is spirit moving and governs our ability to be creative and apply our energy in an aligned way. Fire element is about honesty, and pure assertive nature. Some may think you come off too strong, while others not strong enough - this is all dependent on how much heat someone can take, based on their upbringing, trauma responses, and cultural associations. What it's time to do is light your own fire of passion so that it no longer matters what other's think because you're so lit up by your own fiery truth and wisdom - nothing else matters. 

It's time to have a clearing conversation either on the phone or in person. Be upfront with a person that you care about in which things ended on a bad note. This could be anyone from an old roomate that left on bad terms to your father who never really cared for you. Take responsibility, and then tell them you're sorry for your end of how things were handled, say your truth of why you were angry, sad, or hurt by them. Say you either wanted correct closure OR that you'd like to continue this relationships and start anew with proper boundaries. Be honest, be real, be respectful and also ask for the support you need from them here on out. If you are working with a bossy or bulldozing type of person, know what your standards are for this relationship, set them before going into the scenario. Make sure egos are in check, and be honest.